DOs

The DO's

  • DO trust your intuition.
  • DO speak with the individual privately and express your willingness to help directly and non-judgmentally.
  • DO let him/her know you are concerned about his/her welfare.
  • DO listen carefully to what the individual is upset about; actively listen.
  • DO acknowledge the feelings of the individual; help explore options.
  • DO point out that help is available and that seeking help is a sign of strength and courage, rather than weakness or failure.
  • DO suggest resources; make personal referrals when possible, and call ahead to brief the person.
  • DO maintain clear and consistent boundaries and expectations; recognize your own limits.
  • DO call 911 if you are concerned for your immediate safety or that of others, or if the individual needs immediate attention.
  • DO consult with an appropriate mental health resource if you are concerned for the individual but they are not a danger to themselves (e.g., sexual assault, recent loss).
  • DO refer an individual to an appropriate campus or community resource for support related to personal or academic issues.  When in doubt, call the Dean of Students.